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Social stories · Home and family · ages 5–9 · 2-minute read

Getting ready in the morning: a social story

For mornings that feel rushed or turn into battles. The same steps, in the same order, every school day.

The story

Read it aloud together, one card at a time. Point to the pictures and let your child read the last card.

  1. On school days, I wake up in the morning. An alarm or my grown-up helps me wake up.

  2. First I go to the toilet and wash my face.

  3. I put on the clothes we got ready last night.

  4. I eat my breakfast. Food gives my body energy for the day.

  5. I brush my teeth.

  6. I check my bag: lunch, water bottle and anything I need today.

  7. Shoes and coat go on. Then we leave the house.

  8. My picture chart shows me the next step, so I can do it myself.

  9. When I am ready, I can feel proud. I got myself ready!

My calm plan

Pick one or two before the day, and practise them at home.

  • 📋 Check my chart
  • ⏳ Beat the timer
  • 🎵 Morning song
  • 🫁 One slow breath

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Mila, a young lynx in a red headband and striped T-shirt

How to use this story (for grown-ups)

  • Split the jobs: lay out clothes, pack the bag and make lunch the night before, so mornings only have a few steps.
  • Put a picture chart of the morning steps where your child can see it, and point to it instead of repeating instructions.
  • Get up 15 to 30 minutes earlier than feels necessary, and keep screens off until your child is ready to go.
  • Praise specific steps ("you packed your bag by yourself!"). If every morning is a struggle, check with the teacher in case school itself is the worry (see our drop-off story).

Why these steps: what 30 years of research says about social stories.

Words that help

  • Try saying: "What is next on your chart?"Instead of: "Hurry up, we are late again!"
  • Try saying: "You put your shoes on by yourself."Instead of: "Why can't you just get ready?"

Questions parents ask

How many steps should a morning chart have?

Usually five to eight, with a picture for each. Fewer, bigger steps are easier for younger children; you can split a step later if it keeps getting stuck.

My child dawdles every morning. What helps most?

Doing more the night before, a visible chart, and a game such as "beat the timer" for one step at a time. Calm, short reminders work better than lots of talking.

We read the best free examples and guidance we could find, then wrote a shorter, simpler version in our own words: Raising Children Network: morning routine for school; Student Wellbeing Hub (Australian Government): getting ready for school, story (PDF). Not medical advice; if you are worried about your child, talk to their school or doctor.