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Social stories · Out and about · ages 5–9 · 2-minute read

Going to the supermarket: a social story

Shops can be busy, bright and noisy. A list, a job and a plan make the trip calmer.

The story

Read it aloud together, one card at a time. Point to the pictures and let your child read the last card.

  1. Sometimes I go to the supermarket with my grown-up to buy food.

  2. Before we go, we make a list. My picture list shows what we need.

  3. The shop can be busy, bright and noisy. I can wear my ear defenders or a cap.

  4. I stay close to my grown-up, or ride in the trolley.

  5. I have a job: find the apples, or tick things off my list.

  6. I might see things I want. Usually we buy what is on our list. I can add ideas to my wish list.

  7. At the checkout, we wait in the queue. Then we pack our bags.

  8. When we finish, we go home. I helped with the shopping!

My calm plan

Pick one or two before the day, and practise them at home.

  • 📝 Tick my list
  • 🎧 Ear defenders
  • 🍎 My helping job
  • 💭 Wish list

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How to use this story (for grown-ups)

  • Tell your child before you go: where you are going, what you will buy and what you expect. Give them a picture list to tick.
  • Avoid tired or hungry times. Many shops have quieter hours, and click-and-collect avoids queues on hard days.
  • Give your child a real job, such as finding items or putting fruit in a bag. Busy hands make waiting easier.
  • If a meltdown happens, keep your child safe and stay calm and close. Avoid buying sweets or toys to stop it, which can make the next trip harder.

Why these steps: what 30 years of research says about social stories.

Words that help

  • Try saying: "It's not on our list today. Let's add it to your wish list."Instead of: "If you behave, I'll buy you sweets."
  • Try saying: "Can you find the bananas for me?"Instead of: "Stop touching everything!"

Questions parents ask

Should I promise a treat for good behaviour?

A small treat planned in advance, the same each time, can help some children. Avoid treats offered in the middle of a meltdown, which tend to teach that meltdowns get rewards.

What is a sunflower lanyard?

The Hidden Disabilities Sunflower lanyard is a green lanyard with sunflowers that quietly tells staff someone may need extra help or patience. Many shops recognise it.

We read the best free examples and guidance we could find, then wrote a shorter, simpler version in our own words: Welsh Government (Parenting. Give it time): shopping without the stropping; North East Autism Society: autism-friendly shopping guide. Not medical advice; if you are worried about your child, talk to their school or doctor.